unwanted visitors

how do you deal with vistis from people you don't want to be around... I just hope they change their mind before they get here... I will just stay to my self... after all they are not her to see me. gonna have to remember where I put my fake smile... I just dont know what it is I just don't want to deal with certine people these days.... sometimes I wish I could just say what is on my mind out loud... why do I have to worry about what I say hurting someones feelings... don't think they do the same for me... Rude some might say... want to wear a sign that says I don't like you and I am not going to pertend that I do.....this is why I drink... so Cheers to sucking it up and fake smiles... :0>....

love

so I married the best man ever... just celebrated 9 years.... we have survived to worst and the best and we're sill kicking it strong as ever.. The worst you might ask the MONSTER IN LAW.... don't get any worse than that.. she pushes so hard for us to get married then would love nothing more than to see us divorced with in the first year... what a bit**....the best we love each other so much it will make you sick.... the perfect pair.... we do have our moments tho but all and all I wouldn't trade my life with him for one second...

Who I am????

I am small framed woman in my 30's married and I have kids... (teenagers) I have an ex looser on my side and my husband (the most wonderful man ever) has an ex on his side.... So I've experienced it all... (or so I like to think) I am starting this blog as my place to vent....(which I often need to do) I don't mean to offend anyone or hurt any feelings (so take my apology in advance if you think you might need it)